Had Sex with a Commitment Phobe?

 You have been going out for couple of months and got intimate with each other. The sex is great, but sadly he’s not showing any signs of being in it for the long haul. So what do you do if he doesn’t want a relationship? Here are tips to deal with it. 

Do you even want one?
Evaluate your feeling for him and see if you want a relationship. Maybe this situation is temporary and the ‘no strings attached’ sex makes sense. After all, you aren’t that into him.

 You might get hurt in the long run
Falling for a man who doesn’t want to take things to a deeper level can be extremely heart breaking. If you end up making him part of your life while you aren’t anything in his it can be hard. There’s even a good chance of him hurting you. So decide, if you want to go ahead with it or not.

 Give him some time
Some guys don’t like the official tag of being in a relationship, but he may exhibit all the qualities of an actual boyfriend. Only, he doesn’t call it that. So, it’s best to give the whole situation some time. He’ll get used to the idea and see that a relationship with you is what he wants too.

 

  Will he ever be ready?

 Some guys just don’t want to commit… ever! Whether they are afraid of the C word, have been hurt, or just need their own space, all guys have some reason to avoid being in a twosome. And in that case, we suggest you show him the door.