5 Signs she wants sex
Focus on what she's not telling you in bed by reading her body language
It's a universally accepted fact that women
are complicated, confusing beings who, in spite of talking incessantly,
rely a lot on non-verbal communication to convey their inner-most
thoughts. So it's left to you to unravel the mystery of their look, sigh
Since they manage to take the same trait into the
bedroom and you might find yourself befuddled at her reactions,
wondering if she's rubbing up against you out of extreme desire or as a
distraction tactic to get you to stop doing what you're doing.
We help you decode her subtle body language in bed, so you're abreast of whether you're doing it right or need to up your ante. If you manage to read your cues right, you'll be suitable rewarded and her body will display overall signs of arousal that can't be faked. Here are a few:
In her arms
What works for one woman may never work for another but the idea is to be attuned to the feedback
her body language is giving you. If you feel like you're not in sync,
pause and try something new. Avoid sticking to a routine or becoming
predictable. Spice things up with experimentation, teasing and
tantalizing your partner and keep an eye out for fake moans and forced
If instead of holding you, her arms are held close to her body, there
might be a little something going on, you should take note of. In some
positions she might need her arms to support her weight, but in most
cases, if she's consciously holding her arms close, she is clearly not
letting go with wild abandon. She shouldn't want to be covering herself
up. If however, they're above your or her head, on your chest, splayed
out on the sheets or held out on either side, it's her way of telling
you, she's comfortable with where she is and there's no need to hold
What works for one woman may never work for another but the idea is to be attuned to the feedback her body language is giving you. If you feel like you're not in sync, pause and try something new. Avoid sticking to a routine or becoming predictable. Spice things up with experimentation, teasing and tantalizing your partner and keep an eye out for fake moans and forced emotions.
This is usually a dead give away and impossible to mask or fake. As the body is excited and turned on, the breath becomes more urgent and rapid. Involuntary moans are made as air rapidly makes its way through her vocal chords. The heart rate increases as the body prepares for an orgasm, making her internal organs demand more oxygen. A thumping heart rate and urgent breathing should let you know that you're on the right track. However, if immediately after a big orgasm, she's back to a slow restful pace of breath, you just witnessed a big show.
A little known secret about good sex is that it's tremendously synchronized. The way the bodies were designed, they were meant to move repeatedly in the same motion until both achieved a climax. So if you find her matching your moves, you've hit the right notes and just need to make it to the finish line. Sometimes it takes a little time to get in sync but if you don't see it happening, chances are that her body is telling you it wants something else, another position perhaps. Wait for her to respond with the same intensity.